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10 | Confidence in Self vs. Confidence in God: What Christian Women Get Wrong

Episode #10: Confidence in Self vs. Confidence in God — What Christian Women Get Wrong
As Christian women, we’re often taught:
“Don’t trust yourself… trust God.”
Sounds spiritual, right?
But in real life?
It often looks like:✨second-guessing every decision✨overthinking everything✨and feeling stuck waiting for clarity that never seems to come
In this episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I’m breaking down the truth about confidence –what it actually means to trust God and yourself.
Because this isn’t about choosing one or the other.
It’s about understanding how they work together.
If you’ve ever felt paralyzed trying to “get it right” or afraid of making the wrong decision, this episode will help you finally move forward—with clarity and confidence.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
💕 Why “don’t trust yourself” is often misunderstood (and keeping you stuck)💕 The difference between discernment vs. overthinking💕 Why self-doubt isn’t humility & what it really is💕 How to rebuild trust in yourself without losing your faith💕 The mindset shift that helps you stop waiting—and start moving forward
Ready to Stop Overthinking and Start Moving Forward?
If this episode hit home, it’s time to stop spinning in indecision and start building real confidence.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, I help you:✨ rebuild your confidence✨trust yourself again✨and move forward with clarity—without overthinking everything
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09 | Why “Just Move On” Is Toxic Advice for Christian Healing

Episode #9: Why “Just Move On” Is Toxic Advice for Christian Healing
“Just move on.”
Sounds simple… right?
But if you’ve ever walked through divorce or heartbreak, you know it’s not that easy.
In this episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I’m breaking down why this common advice actually keeps Christian women stuck—and what real, faith-based healing actually looks like.
Because healing isn’t about rushing.And it’s definitely not about pretending you’re fine.
If you’ve been putting pressure on yourself to “be over it” by now, this episode will help you breathe again—and start healing for real.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Why “just move on” teaches you something you don't want to d– How this advice disconnects you from something that's so important– Why rushing your healing can delay the transformation God is doing in you– The shift you need to move past your divorce
Ready to Heal for Real (Not Just Pretend You’re Fine)?
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll learn how to:rebuild your confidencerenew your mindand actually heal after divorce—without rushing the process
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08 | Why Christian Women Stay in Unhealthy Relationships (Even When They Know Better)

Episode #8: Why Christian Women Stay in Unhealthy Relationships (Even When They Know Better)
Why do so many Christian women stay in unhealthy relationships… even when they know something isn’t right?
They see the red flags.They feel it in their gut.And yet… they stay.
In this honest episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I break down the real reasons why faithful, self-aware women stay stuck in relationship patterns that hurt them.
Because this isn’t about weakness.
It’s about conditioning, fear, and believing that staying makes you “good”—even when it’s costing you your peace.
If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why did I stay so long?”This episode will help you understand—and start breaking the pattern.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– What Christian women confuse with love– How spiritualizing red flags keeps you stuck longer than you should be– Why ignoring your needs becomes a pattern (and how to stop)– How unhealthy relationships erode your confidence and self-trust– Why staying can feel safer than leaving– The mindset shifts you need to finally choose differently
Ready to Break the Pattern?
If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is getting the support you need to heal and rebuild.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll learn how to:rebuild your confidencetrust yourself againand stop repeating the same old patterns
🎉 Join here:https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club
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07 | Why Christian Women Struggle to Believe in Themselves—Even When They Love Jesus

Episode #7: Why Christian Women Struggle to Believe in Themselves—Even When They Love Jesus
As Christian women, we’re taught to trust God, have faith, and walk in humility.
But what no one really talks about is this:
You can love Jesus… and still struggle to believe in yourself.
You can pray, read your Bible, and encourage everyone around you—while quietly battling self-doubt, insecurity, and second-guessing every decision you make.
And after divorce, that struggle often becomes even deeper.
Because divorce has a way of shaking your confidence, your identity, and your ability to trust yourself at the core.
In this honest episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I talk about why so many Christian women struggle with confidence after divorce—even when their faith is strong.
Because the truth is, this isn’t about a lack of faith.
It’s about years of conditioning, identity confusion, and beliefs that have kept you disconnected from who God says you are.
In this episode, I share part of my own journey of rebuilding confidence after divorce and what it actually takes to move from self-doubt into grounded, faith-filled confidence.
Not loud confidence.Not fake confidence.But the kind of confidence that is rooted in truth, identity, and trust in who God created you to be.
If you’re a Christian woman who feels stuck in self-doubt, this episode will help you understand something powerful:
You are not lacking faith.You are not “too broken.”You are a woman learning how to trust yourself again through God’s truth.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Why many Christian women struggle with self-confidence—even when they love Jesus– How church culture can unintentionally create insecurity instead of healthy confidence– Why divorce often destroys self-trust and leads to second-guessing everything– What leads to ongoing self-doubt– Why many women have been conditioned to outsource their worth to others– What has to come first in order to build confidence– How renewing your mind is essential for rebuilding confidence after divorce– The difference between pride and healthy, faith-based self-belief
✨ Ready to Rebuild Your Confidence and Identity After Divorce?
If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who understand this journey and are doing this work too.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find:
Lori Ann’s transformational 90-Day Comeback Program• Weekly live coaching and Q&A calls with Lori Ann (Certified Christian Life Coach)• Faith-based strategies for rebuilding confidence and identity after divorce• A supportive community of Christian women learning how to trust themselves again
You don’t have to keep second-guessing yourself.You don’t have to stay stuck in self-doubt.And you don’t have to rebuild your life alone.
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06 | Why So Many Divorced Women Stay Stuck In Survival Mode

Episode #6: Why So Many Divorced Women Stay Stuck in Survival Mode
After divorce, many women enter survival mode just to get through the crisis.
They’re juggling finances, parenting, emotional overwhelm, and the shock of their life changing overnight.
At first, survival mode makes sense.
But for many divorced women — especially Christian women in midlife — survival mode doesn’t just last for a season.
It quietly becomes the way they live.
They keep functioning, showing up, and holding everything together… but inside they feel exhausted, disconnected, and stuck.
In this honest episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I talk about why so many divorced women remain stuck in survival mode after divorce — and how to begin moving toward true healing and freedom.
Because the truth is, survival mode may protect you in a crisis, but it was never meant to be your permanent home.
If you’ve been feeling emotionally numb, constantly overwhelmed, or like you’re just getting through each day instead of actually living again, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening.
And more importantly, it will show you how to begin stepping out of survival mode and into healing.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– What survival mode after divorce actually looks like and why so many women experience it– Why survival mode often begins as a protective response to emotional trauma– How unprocessed grief can keep divorced women stuck in survival mode– Why many Christian women struggle to move beyond survival after divorce– How fear and constant busyness can keep you emotionally stuck– Why many women build an identity around being “the strong one”– The small, practical steps that help you begin moving from surviving to healing✨ Ready to Rebuild Your Faith and Your Life After Divorce?
If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who understand this journey.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find:
Lori Ann’s transformational 90-Day Comeback Program• Weekly live coaching and Q&A calls with Lori Ann (Certified Christian Life Coach)• Faith-based guidance for healing after divorce• A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives
You don’t have to wrestle through this season alone.
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05 | Faith After Divorce: How to Trust God When Your Life Fell Apart

Episode #5: Faith After Divorce — How to Trust God When Your Life Fell Apart
Trusting God after divorce can feel almost impossible.
As Christian women, we’re often told to “just trust God,” “have faith,” or “lean not on your own understanding.” But when the marriage you prayed for falls apart and the life you imagined is suddenly gone, those words can feel more frustrating than comforting.
In this honest episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I talk about the real struggle many Christian women face when their faith feels shaken after divorce.
Because the truth is, many women still believe in God after divorce — but their trust feels fragile.
And they often feel guilty about that.
In this episode, I share a deeply personal part of my own journey of rebuilding faith after divorce and the steps that helped me begin trusting God again — not with perfect faith, but with honest faith.
If you’re a Christian woman trying to reconcile your pain with your faith, this episode will help you understand something powerful:
You are not failing spiritually.You are not a bad Christian because this is hard.You are a woman learning how to trust God again after heartbreak.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Why trusting God after divorce is often harder than people admit– How church culture can unintentionally make women feel guilty when their faith struggles– What is the first step toward rebuilding trust with God– How to separate God’s character from painful life circumstances– Why clarity doesn’t always come before obedience– What helps rebuild trust in God over time– Why your faith after divorce may actually become deeper and more authentic
🌿 If Your Faith Feels Shaky Right Now…
You’re not alone.
Many Christian women experience a season after divorce where they still love God but struggle to understand Him.
Questions like:
Why did God allow this?Why didn’t my prayers change the outcome?Where was God when everything fell apart?
These are real questions — and bringing them to God honestly is not rebellion. It’s relationship.
In fact, rebuilding faith after divorce often begins when we stop pretending everything is okay and start bringing God our real questions, grief, anger, and confusion.
As I share in this episode, God isn’t looking for polished faith — He’s looking for honest faith.
✨ Ready to Rebuild Your Faith and Your Life After Divorce?
If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who understand this journey.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find:
Lori Ann’s transformational 90-Day Comeback Program• Weekly live coaching and Q&A calls with Lori Ann (Certified Christian Life Coach)• Faith-based guidance for healing after divorce• A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives
You don’t have to wrestle through this season alone.
🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club:https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club
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04 | Healing After Divorce: What No One Prepares Christian Women For

Episode #4: Healing After Divorce — What No One Prepares Christian Women For
Healing after divorce isn’t just about signing papers, dividing assets, or adjusting to a new routine. For many Christian women, the real battle begins after everything settles—when the emotional aftershock, identity crisis, loneliness, and spiritual questions start to surface.
In this deeply honest episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I share what no one talks about when it comes to healing after divorce as a Christian woman.
If you’ve ever wondered why the pain lingers longer than expected, why your identity feels shaken, or why healing feels so lonely at times, this conversation will help you realize something powerful:
You’re not broken. You’re not failing. You’re healing.
I share pieces of my own journey through divorce and the lessons God used to rebuild my confidence, identity, and purpose—one small surrendered step at a time.
If you’re a Christian woman navigating life after divorce, this episode will help you understand what’s happening emotionally, spiritually, and mentally—and how to start moving forward with hope again.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Why healing after divorce is not linear (and why emotional setbacks are actually part of progress)– The hidden identity crisis many Christian women face after divorce– Why loneliness can feel so intense during healing after divorce– How the real battle after divorce often happens in your mind– The surprising grief many women experience for the future that never happened– Why surrender is one of the most powerful steps in Christian divorce recovery– How God can rebuild a life that is stronger, freer, and more aligned with your purpose
🌿 If You’re Healing After Divorce as a Christian Woman…
This episode will remind you that:
You are not disqualified.Your story is not over.And God is still writing your comeback.
Even if healing feels messy, slow, or confusing right now, God is still working behind the scenes to rebuild your life in ways you may not be able to see yet.
✨ Ready to Rebuild Your Life After Divorce?
If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is joining a community of women who truly understand this journey.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find:
Faith-based coaching for Christian women after divorce• Lori Ann’s transformational 90-day healing program• Weekly live coaching calls and Q&A sessions• A supportive sisterhood of midlife Christian women walking the same path
You don’t have to heal alone anymore.
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03 | You’re Not Too Broken to Love Again—But Let’s Get Real About Healing First

Is love still possible after divorce?
If you’re a Christian woman in midlife wondering whether you’ll ever love again — and feeling equal parts hope and fear — this episode is for you.
In this episode, we're having an honest, faith-centered conversation about dating after divorce, healing before relationships, and how to know if you’re “healed enough” to open your heart again.
Because here’s the truth:
You’re not afraid of love.You’re afraid of repeating pain.
Divorce doesn’t just end a marriage.It disrupts your relational wiring, your sense of safety, and your trust in your own instincts.
If you’ve been asking:
Am I too damaged to love again?
What if I choose wrong again?
What if I attract the same kind of relationship?
How do I date in a way that honors God?
What does “healed enough” even mean?
This episode will help you navigate loving again after divorce — not from fantasy, fear, or pressure — but from truth, self-awareness, and faith.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
Why divorce makes dating after divorce feel complicated
The difference between fear of love and fear of repeating pain
How divorce impacts trust, vulnerability, and relational safety
The difference between chemistry and emotional safety
Why healing before dating is essential for Christian women
3 honest markers that show you’re healing (even if you don’t feel ready)
How to approach love again with faith instead of desperation
This episode is especially helpful for women navigating midlife divorce recovery who want to rebuild their identity and relationships in alignment with God.
Why Love Feels So Complicated After Divorce:
After divorce, many Christian women experience:
Hypervigilance in dating
Fear of vulnerability
Loss of trust in their instincts
Confusion between chemistry and true safety
This doesn’t mean you’re broken.
It means your system learned through pain.
Healing isn’t about erasing your past — it’s about integrating it wisely so you can love again from a grounded, healed place.
Ready for Faith-Based Support While You Heal?
If you don’t want to repeat old patterns…If you want to heal before loving again…If you want to rebuild trust in yourself and in God…
You’re invited to join:
🎉 The Midlife Comeback Club Group Coaching Membership 🎉
Inside you’ll find:
A 90-Day Transformational Healing Course
Weekly Live Faith-Based Group Coaching
Support as you rebuild relational patterns
Tools to strengthen identity and confidence
A community of Christian midlife women walking this same journey
👉 Learn more here: https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club
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You are not too broken to love again.
You’re not behind.You’re not disqualified.
You’re becoming whole.
And your next chapter can be built on healing — not fear.

02 | How Divorce Wrecks Your Self-Confidence (and How to Rebuild It God’s Way)

If divorce has shaken your confidence and you don’t recognize the woman you see in the mirror anymore… this episode is for you.
We're diving into one of the deepest wounds Christian women experience after divorce – the quiet erosion of self-confidence.
Divorce doesn’t just break your heart.It chips away at your identity, your trust in yourself, and your sense of worth.
You may find yourself asking:
Why didn’t I see this coming?
Can I trust my judgment anymore?
What’s wrong with me?
Does struggling with confidence mean I’m struggling with my faith?
Here’s the truth:Divorce didn’t expose a confidence problem.Divorce created a confidence wound.
And wounds need care — not criticism.
In this episode, we unpack how divorce impacts your identity, self-trust, and self-worth — and shares practical, faith-based steps to rebuild confidence after divorce in midlife.
You’ll Learn:
Why divorce affects confidence at a deeper level than most people realize
The difference between a confidence problem and a confidence wound
How identity shifts after divorce can distort self-perception
Why “just be confident” advice doesn’t work
How to separate your worth from your marriage outcome
Simple daily practices to rebuild self-trust
How faith and confidence can realign after divorce
This episode is especially powerful for Christian women navigating midlife divorce recovery who want to rebuild confidence without pretending or forcing it.
If you’re tired of second-guessing yourself and want structured, Christian divorce recovery support, join me inside the:
✨ The Midlife Comeback Club Membership ✨
Inside you’ll receive:
A 90-Day Transformational Healing Course
Weekly Live Group Coaching Calls
Faith-based tools to rebuild confidence and identity
A supportive community of Christian midlife women healing after divorce
👉 Learn more here: https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club
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Confidence after divorce isn’t about pretending you’re strong.
It’s about rebuilding what was shaken — gently, faithfully, and intentionally.
Your comeback is already in motion. 💛
 

01 | Divorce Recovery: The Basics and How to Move Forward, Even When You’re Still in Survival Mode.

Are you a Christian woman navigating healing after divorce and wondering why you still feel stuck?
In this powerful first episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, we dive into one of the most overlooked parts of Christian divorce recovery – survival mode.
After divorce, many midlife women find themselves functioning — but not fully living. You’re working. Parenting. Praying. Showing up. But inside, you feel exhausted, disconnected, anxious, or spiritually numb.
If you’ve ever thought:
“Why am I still struggling after my divorce?”
“Why does my faith feel different now?”
“Why can’t I just move on?”
“Why do I feel stuck in survival mode?”
This episode will help you understand what’s happening in your body, your nervous system, your identity, and your faith.
Because survival mode after divorce isn’t weakness.It’s a trauma response.
And true healing after divorce — especially for Christian women — begins with compassion, safety, and grounded faith.
What You'll Learn In This Episode:
What survival mode after divorce really is
Why healing after divorce is not linear
How divorce impacts identity and sense of safety
Why you can’t “pray harder” or “push through” trauma
The connection between nervous system healing and faith
3 foundational steps to move from survival to stability
How Christian women can rebuild after divorce without shame
This episode is especially helpful for women navigating midlife divorce recovery who want faith-based guidance rooted in emotional and nervous system awareness.
Ready for Faith-Based Divorce Support?
If you’re a Christian woman in midlife who is tired of surviving alone and ready to intentionally rebuild after divorce, you’re invited to join:
🎉 The Midlife Comeback Club Group Coaching Membership 🎉
Inside you’ll find:
A 90-Day Transformational Healing Course
Weekly Live Group Coaching Calls
Tools to rebuild confidence and identity after divorce
A faith-centered community for Christian women healing after divorce
👉 Learn more here: https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club
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You were never meant to survive forever.
Midlife divorce isn’t the end of your story — it’s the beginning of your comeback.