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Episode #14: Faith Doesn’t Cancel Feelings — Why Suppressing Pain After Divorce Isn’t Spiritual
As Christian women, we’re often taught that if we just “have enough faith,” we shouldn’t feel sad, angry, or overwhelmed.
So after divorce, when those emotions show up…
We try to pray them away.Ignore them.Push them down.
And call it faith.
But what if suppressing your feelings isn’t spiritual at all?
In this honest and eye-opening episode of The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast, I talk about the real reason so many Christian women stay stuck emotionally after divorce—and why pretending you’re “fine” is actually slowing down your healing.
Because the truth is…
Faith doesn’t cancel your feelings.
And healing doesn’t happen when you ignore what you feel—it happens when you finally face it.
If you’ve ever felt like your emotions mean you’re doing something wrong spiritually, this episode will help you understand something powerful.
You’re not failing in your faith.You’re learning how to process your pain in a healthy, honest way.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Why suppressing emotions after divorce keeps you stuck longer than necessary– The difference between real healing and “spiritual avoidance”– What the Bible actually shows us about emotions and faith– WhatvJesus did when it came to expressing his deep emotions– How to stop trying to “pray away” your feelings– What it looks like to bring honest, unfiltered emotions to God– How emotional healing and spiritual growth actually work together
✨ Ready to Heal Without Pretending You’re Fine?
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Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, my annual group coaching membership, you’ll find✨ My 90 day transformational "Crush Your Divine Comeback, Girl" Program
 ✨ Weekly live coaching and Q&A sessions with Lori Ann, Certified Christian Life Coach✨ Faith-based guidance & strategies for healing after divorce✨ A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives
You don’t have to navigate this alone.
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Episode #13: The Truth About the Proverbs 31 Woman: Why Christian Women Stay in Unhealthy Relationships
For years, many Christian women have been taught that being a “Proverbs 31 woman” means staying quiet, keeping the peace, and enduring—no matter what.
But what if that’s not what the Bible actually teaches?
In this bold and eye-opening episode of The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast, I unpack one of the most misunderstood concepts in Christian womanhood—and how it may be keeping you stuck in unhealthy patterns after divorce.
Because the truth is…
Being a godly woman does not mean tolerating behavior that breaks you.
And it definitely doesn’t mean abandoning yourself in the process.
If you’ve ever felt like you had to choose between your faith and your well-being, this episode will help you see something clearly.
You don’t have to disappear to be a “good Christian woman.”
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– What the Proverbs 31 woman actually represents (and what she doesn’t)– Why “just pray and stay” is often misunderstood—and not always biblical– The difference between true strength and silent self-abandonment– What it really means to “guard your heart” as a Christian woman– What Jesus would do in an unhealthy relationship– Why your value is not based on how much you tolerate– How to begin reclaiming your voice, your confidence, and your identity after divorce
✨Ready to Rebuild Your Life with Confidence and Faith?
If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who are walking this journey too.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find:
✨ My transformational 90-Day Comeback Program✨ Weekly live coaching and Q&A sessions with Lori Ann, Certified Christian Life Coach✨ Faith-based guidance for healing after divorce✨ A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
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Episode #12: Divorce, Guilt, and God: Letting Go of the Shame That Keeps You Stuck
If you’ve ever laid in bed replaying your past like it’s your brain’s full-time job… this episode is for you.
Because let’s be real—after divorce, it’s not just the heartbreak you carry…
 It’s the guilt. The second-guessing. The quiet thoughts that whisper: “I should’ve known better.” “This was my fault.”
In this episode, we’re calling that out for what it really is—shame that’s keeping you stuck.
And more importantly?We’re replacing it with truth.
Because God never asked you to carry something He already paid for.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
–The difference between conviction vs. shame (and why so many women confuse the two) –Why replaying your past is not helping you heal (even though it feels like it is) –The hidden reason you’re still holding onto guilt—and how to finally release it –What the Bible actually says about forgiveness, grace, and letting go of your past –How to break free from the mental loop of overthinking and step into emotional and spiritual freedom
Ready to Let Go of the Shame and Move Forward?
If you’re tired of:✨ Replaying the past✨ Carrying guilt that God already released✨ Overthinking every decision✨ Feeling stuck in your healing
This is exactly the work we do inside The Midlife Comeback Club 💛
This isn’t just inspiration…
It’s transformation.
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Episode #11: You Didn’t Lose Your Faith—You Lost the Life You Expected
After divorce, it can feel like your faith is… off.
You still believe in God.You still pray.You still want to trust Him.
But something feels different.
And that can be confusing—especially as a Christian woman.
In this episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I break down what’s actually happening when your faith feels shaken after divorce.
Because the truth is:
You didn’t lose your faith.You lost the life you thought you were going to have.
And those are not the same thing.
If you’ve ever thought, “Why does my faith feel so different now?”This episode will help you understand what’s really going on—and how to rebuild from here.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Why it feels like you’ve “lost your faith” after divorce (even when you haven’t)– How unmet expectations can shake your identity and your relationship with God– Why questioning God doesn’t mean your faith is failing– The shift from surface-level faith → real, personal faith– How to begin rebuilding your faith in a way that actually feels honest and grounded
Ready to Rebuild Your Faith and Your Life?
If this episode spoke to your heart, it’s time to stop trying to figure this out on your own.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, I help you:✨ rebuild your confidence✨ trust yourself again✨ and move forward with clarity—without overthinking everything
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Episode #10: Confidence in Self vs. Confidence in God — What Christian Women Get Wrong
As Christian women, we’re often taught:
“Don’t trust yourself… trust God.”
Sounds spiritual, right?
But in real life?
It often looks like:✨second-guessing every decision✨overthinking everything✨and feeling stuck waiting for clarity that never seems to come
In this episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I’m breaking down the truth about confidence –what it actually means to trust God and yourself.
Because this isn’t about choosing one or the other.
It’s about understanding how they work together.
If you’ve ever felt paralyzed trying to “get it right” or afraid of making the wrong decision, this episode will help you finally move forward—with clarity and confidence.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
💕 Why “don’t trust yourself” is often misunderstood (and keeping you stuck)💕 The difference between discernment vs. overthinking💕 Why self-doubt isn’t humility & what it really is💕 How to rebuild trust in yourself without losing your faith💕 The mindset shift that helps you stop waiting—and start moving forward
Ready to Stop Overthinking and Start Moving Forward?
If this episode hit home, it’s time to stop spinning in indecision and start building real confidence.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, I help you:✨ rebuild your confidence✨trust yourself again✨and move forward with clarity—without overthinking everything
🎉 Join us here!!https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club
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Episode #9: Why “Just Move On” Is Toxic Advice for Christian Healing
“Just move on.”
Sounds simple… right?
But if you’ve ever walked through divorce or heartbreak, you know it’s not that easy.
In this episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I’m breaking down why this common advice actually keeps Christian women stuck—and what real, faith-based healing actually looks like.
Because healing isn’t about rushing.And it’s definitely not about pretending you’re fine.
If you’ve been putting pressure on yourself to “be over it” by now, this episode will help you breathe again—and start healing for real.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Why “just move on” teaches you something you don't want to d– How this advice disconnects you from something that's so important– Why rushing your healing can delay the transformation God is doing in you– The shift you need to move past your divorce
Ready to Heal for Real (Not Just Pretend You’re Fine)?
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll learn how to:rebuild your confidencerenew your mindand actually heal after divorce—without rushing the process
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Episode #8: Why Christian Women Stay in Unhealthy Relationships (Even When They Know Better)
Why do so many Christian women stay in unhealthy relationships… even when they know something isn’t right?
They see the red flags.They feel it in their gut.And yet… they stay.
In this honest episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I break down the real reasons why faithful, self-aware women stay stuck in relationship patterns that hurt them.
Because this isn’t about weakness.
It’s about conditioning, fear, and believing that staying makes you “good”—even when it’s costing you your peace.
If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why did I stay so long?”This episode will help you understand—and start breaking the pattern.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– What Christian women confuse with love– How spiritualizing red flags keeps you stuck longer than you should be– Why ignoring your needs becomes a pattern (and how to stop)– How unhealthy relationships erode your confidence and self-trust– Why staying can feel safer than leaving– The mindset shifts you need to finally choose differently
Ready to Break the Pattern?
If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is getting the support you need to heal and rebuild.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll learn how to:rebuild your confidencetrust yourself againand stop repeating the same old patterns
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Episode #7: Why Christian Women Struggle to Believe in Themselves—Even When They Love Jesus
As Christian women, we’re taught to trust God, have faith, and walk in humility.
But what no one really talks about is this:
You can love Jesus… and still struggle to believe in yourself.
You can pray, read your Bible, and encourage everyone around you—while quietly battling self-doubt, insecurity, and second-guessing every decision you make.
And after divorce, that struggle often becomes even deeper.
Because divorce has a way of shaking your confidence, your identity, and your ability to trust yourself at the core.
In this honest episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I talk about why so many Christian women struggle with confidence after divorce—even when their faith is strong.
Because the truth is, this isn’t about a lack of faith.
It’s about years of conditioning, identity confusion, and beliefs that have kept you disconnected from who God says you are.
In this episode, I share part of my own journey of rebuilding confidence after divorce and what it actually takes to move from self-doubt into grounded, faith-filled confidence.
Not loud confidence.Not fake confidence.But the kind of confidence that is rooted in truth, identity, and trust in who God created you to be.
If you’re a Christian woman who feels stuck in self-doubt, this episode will help you understand something powerful:
You are not lacking faith.You are not “too broken.”You are a woman learning how to trust yourself again through God’s truth.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Why many Christian women struggle with self-confidence—even when they love Jesus– How church culture can unintentionally create insecurity instead of healthy confidence– Why divorce often destroys self-trust and leads to second-guessing everything– What leads to ongoing self-doubt– Why many women have been conditioned to outsource their worth to others– What has to come first in order to build confidence– How renewing your mind is essential for rebuilding confidence after divorce– The difference between pride and healthy, faith-based self-belief
✨ Ready to Rebuild Your Confidence and Identity After Divorce?
If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who understand this journey and are doing this work too.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find:
Lori Ann’s transformational 90-Day Comeback Program• Weekly live coaching and Q&A calls with Lori Ann (Certified Christian Life Coach)• Faith-based strategies for rebuilding confidence and identity after divorce• A supportive community of Christian women learning how to trust themselves again
You don’t have to keep second-guessing yourself.You don’t have to stay stuck in self-doubt.And you don’t have to rebuild your life alone.
🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club:https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club
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Episode #6: Why So Many Divorced Women Stay Stuck in Survival Mode
After divorce, many women enter survival mode just to get through the crisis.
They’re juggling finances, parenting, emotional overwhelm, and the shock of their life changing overnight.
At first, survival mode makes sense.
But for many divorced women — especially Christian women in midlife — survival mode doesn’t just last for a season.
It quietly becomes the way they live.
They keep functioning, showing up, and holding everything together… but inside they feel exhausted, disconnected, and stuck.
In this honest episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I talk about why so many divorced women remain stuck in survival mode after divorce — and how to begin moving toward true healing and freedom.
Because the truth is, survival mode may protect you in a crisis, but it was never meant to be your permanent home.
If you’ve been feeling emotionally numb, constantly overwhelmed, or like you’re just getting through each day instead of actually living again, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening.
And more importantly, it will show you how to begin stepping out of survival mode and into healing.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– What survival mode after divorce actually looks like and why so many women experience it– Why survival mode often begins as a protective response to emotional trauma– How unprocessed grief can keep divorced women stuck in survival mode– Why many Christian women struggle to move beyond survival after divorce– How fear and constant busyness can keep you emotionally stuck– Why many women build an identity around being “the strong one”– The small, practical steps that help you begin moving from surviving to healing✨ Ready to Rebuild Your Faith and Your Life After Divorce?
If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who understand this journey.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find:
Lori Ann’s transformational 90-Day Comeback Program• Weekly live coaching and Q&A calls with Lori Ann (Certified Christian Life Coach)• Faith-based guidance for healing after divorce• A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives
You don’t have to wrestle through this season alone.
🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club:https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club
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Episode #5: Faith After Divorce — How to Trust God When Your Life Fell Apart
Trusting God after divorce can feel almost impossible.
As Christian women, we’re often told to “just trust God,” “have faith,” or “lean not on your own understanding.” But when the marriage you prayed for falls apart and the life you imagined is suddenly gone, those words can feel more frustrating than comforting.
In this honest episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I talk about the real struggle many Christian women face when their faith feels shaken after divorce.
Because the truth is, many women still believe in God after divorce — but their trust feels fragile.
And they often feel guilty about that.
In this episode, I share a deeply personal part of my own journey of rebuilding faith after divorce and the steps that helped me begin trusting God again — not with perfect faith, but with honest faith.
If you’re a Christian woman trying to reconcile your pain with your faith, this episode will help you understand something powerful:
You are not failing spiritually.You are not a bad Christian because this is hard.You are a woman learning how to trust God again after heartbreak.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Why trusting God after divorce is often harder than people admit– How church culture can unintentionally make women feel guilty when their faith struggles– What is the first step toward rebuilding trust with God– How to separate God’s character from painful life circumstances– Why clarity doesn’t always come before obedience– What helps rebuild trust in God over time– Why your faith after divorce may actually become deeper and more authentic
🌿 If Your Faith Feels Shaky Right Now…
You’re not alone.
Many Christian women experience a season after divorce where they still love God but struggle to understand Him.
Questions like:
Why did God allow this?Why didn’t my prayers change the outcome?Where was God when everything fell apart?
These are real questions — and bringing them to God honestly is not rebellion. It’s relationship.
In fact, rebuilding faith after divorce often begins when we stop pretending everything is okay and start bringing God our real questions, grief, anger, and confusion.
As I share in this episode, God isn’t looking for polished faith — He’s looking for honest faith.
✨ Ready to Rebuild Your Faith and Your Life After Divorce?
If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who understand this journey.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find:
Lori Ann’s transformational 90-Day Comeback Program• Weekly live coaching and Q&A calls with Lori Ann (Certified Christian Life Coach)• Faith-based guidance for healing after divorce• A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives
You don’t have to wrestle through this season alone.
🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club:https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club
Subscribe to the Podcast & Leave a Review
If this episode encouraged you, please:
✨ Follow or Subscribe to The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts✨ Share this episode with another Christian woman healing after divorce
Your review helps more women searching for faith after divorce and Christian healing discover this podcast when they need it most.
Take My FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz
Discover which phase of healing you’re in after divorce and what your next step should be.
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