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20 | Faith Isn’t Certainty—It’s Showing Up Anyway

Episode #20: Faith Isn’t Certainty—It’s Showing Up AnywayWhat if faith isn’t about having all the answers…
…but showing up even when you don’t?
If you’re a Christian woman navigating life after divorce, you’ve probably found yourself stuck in this space:
👉 waiting for clarity 👉 overthinking every decision 👉 wondering if you’re “doing the right thing”
Because you’ve been taught that faith should feel certain.
But what if that’s not actually what faith looks like?
In this honest and faith-filled episode of "The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast," we’re breaking down what it really means to trust God in uncertainty—especially when you’re rebuilding your life after divorce.
Because real faith?
Doesn’t always feel confident. It often feels like taking the next step… without having the full plan.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Why faith is not the same as certainty (and why that matters) – How fear and overthinking keep you stuck after divorce – The difference between waiting on God vs. avoiding action – What God often gives you, instead of what you want – How to rebuild faith after divorce when you feel unsure – What it actually means to walk by faith, not by sight – How to take action even when you don’t feel ready or confident
✨ Ready to Start Moving Forward with Faith?
If you’re tired of:
💛 overthinking every decision 💛 feeling stuck in uncertainty 💛 waiting to feel ready
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
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• My 90-Day transformational program • Weekly live coaching & Q&A calls • Faith-based healing and confidence rebuilding • A supportive community of Christian women walking the same journey
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19 | Healing After Divorce Takes Longer Than Forgiveness—and That’s Okay

Episode #19: Healing After Divorce Takes Longer Than Forgiveness—and That’s Okay
You’ve forgiven…
So why does it still hurt?
If you’re a Christian woman navigating life after divorce, this is one of the most confusing parts of the healing process.
Because you’ve prayed about it. You’ve made the decision to forgive. You want to move forward.
And yet…
You’re still triggered. Still emotional. Still feeling the weight of what happened.
In this honest and faith-filled episode of The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast, we’re breaking down the difference between forgiveness and healing—and why they don’t happen on the same timeline.
Because forgiveness is a decision…
But healing? That’s a process.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Why forgiving someone doesn’t instantly heal emotional pain – The difference between forgiveness and emotional healing after divorce – Why you may still feel triggered—even after you’ve forgiven – How to release guilt around “not being over it yet” – What the Bible says about forgiveness vs. healing – Why healing takes time—and what that actually looks like – How to walk through emotional healing with God instead of rushing it
✨ Ready to Start Healing?
If you’re tired of:
💛 feeling stuck in your emotions 💛 questioning whether you’ve really forgiven 💛 trying to rush your healing
You don’t have to do this alone.
And you don’t have to figure this out by yourself.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find:
• My 90-Day transformational program • Weekly live coaching & Q&A calls • Faith-based healing and confidence rebuilding • A supportive community of Christian women walking the same journey
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18 | Emotionally Abusive Relationships Don’t Always Look Like You Think

Episode #18: Emotionally Abusive Relationships Don’t Always Look Like You Think
When you hear the words emotional abuse…
You probably picture yelling. Name-calling. Obvious toxic behavior.
But what if the most damaging kind of emotional abuse… doesn’t look like that at all?
In this powerful and eye-opening episode of The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast, we’re talking about the subtle, confusing, and often overlooked signs of emotional abuse—and why so many Christian women don’t even realize they were in an emotionally abusive relationship until they’re out of it.
Because sometimes…
It doesn’t look like chaos.
It looks like confusion.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
💕The subtle signs of emotional abuse that most women miss💕Why emotional abuse often feels confusing instead of obvious💕The 3 main things that show up in relationships💕Why you may have felt like you were always the problem💕The connection between emotional abuse and losing your confidence, voice, and identity💕How to recognize when you’ve been conditioned to question yourself💕How Jesus treated women and why that matters
✨ Ready to Start Healing?
If you’re realizing that your past relationship affected you more than you thought…
You’re not alone.
And you don’t have to figure this out by yourself.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find:
  My 90-Day transformational program • Weekly live coaching & Q&A calls • Faith-based healing and confidence rebuilding • A supportive community of Christian women walking the same journey
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17 | Rebuilding Confidence After Divorce Without Faking It or Forcing

Episode #17: Rebuilding Confidence After Divorce Without Faking It or Forcing It
“Just be confident.” “Fake it till you make it.” “Just believe in yourself.”
If you’re a Christian woman navigating life after divorce… that advice probably makes you want to roll your eyes. 
Because when your life has been turned upside down, confidence doesn’t just magically come back.
In fact, after divorce, it’s not just your confidence that takes a hit…
It’s your self-trust.
In this honest and faith-filled episode of The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast, I break down what it really looks like to rebuild confidence after divorce—without pretending, performing, or forcing yourself into a version of confidence that doesn’t feel real.
Because true confidence isn’t something you fake…
It’s something you rebuild—one step at a time.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Why confidence after divorce isn’t just about mindset & what it really is – The truth about “fake it till you make it” (and why it doesn’t work long-term) – How divorce impacts your confidence, identity, and decision-making – The connection between faith, action, and rebuilding confidence – Why small daily promises are the foundation of real confidence – How to move forward even when you feel unsure, emotional, or not ready
✨ Ready to Rebuild Your Confidence (For Real)?
If you’re tired of: 💛 second-guessing yourself 💛 feeling stuck or unsure 💛 trying to “fake” confidence that doesn’t feel real
You don’t have to do this alone.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find:
• My transformational 90-Day Comeback Program • Weekly live coaching and Q&A sessions • Faith-based guidance for healing after divorce • A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives
You don’t have to navigate this season alone.
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16 | Divorced, Over 40, and Starting Over: Where Do You Even Begin?

Episode #16: Divorced, Over 40, and Starting Over — Where Do You Even Begin?
Starting over after divorce in your 40's can feel overwhelming.
This isn’t where you thought you’d be. This isn’t the life you planned.
And now you’re left asking the question so many Christian women face after divorce:
“Where do I even begin?”
In this honest and encouraging episode of "The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast," I walk you through what it really looks like to start over after divorce—and why you’re not as “behind” as you think you are.
Because the truth is…
You’re not starting from scratch. You’re starting from experience.
If you’re a Christian woman navigating divorce recovery, rebuilding your confidence, and trying to figure out your next step in midlife, this episode will give you clarity, direction, and hope.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Where to begin when you feel lost after divorce – Why you’re not “behind” in life—even if it feels that way – The biggest mistake women make when trying to start over after 40 – How to stop overthinking your future and focus on your next step – What is the most essential thing you can do after divorce? – What the Bible says about starting over and trusting God’s plan – What two things you need most during healing and rebuilding
✨ Ready to Start Your Comeback?
If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who understand exactly what you’re going through.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find:
My transformational 90-Day Comeback Program • Weekly live coaching and Q&A sessions • Faith-based guidance for healing after divorce • A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives
You don’t have to navigate this season alone.
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15 | Why “Just Have Faith” Is Terrible Advice for Divorced Women

Episode #15: Why “Just Have Faith” Is Terrible Advice for Divorced Women
“Just have faith.”
If you’re a Christian woman going through divorce, chances are you’ve heard this more than once.
And while it sounds encouraging…
It often leaves you feeling more confused, frustrated, and even spiritually stuck.
Because when your life has just fallen apart, your identity feels shaken, and your emotions are all over the place…
“Just have faith” doesn’t actually tell you what to do next.
In this honest and eye-opening episode of "The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast," I break down why this common piece of advice falls flat for so many Christian women after divorce—and what real, practical faith actually looks like in a season of healing.
Because the truth is…
Faith isn’t meant to replace your healing.And it’s not meant to silence your emotions.
If you’ve been trying to “just have faith” but still feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward, this episode will help you understand something powerful.
You’re not doing it wrong.You’ve just been given incomplete advice.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Why “just have faith” can feel frustrating and unhelpful after divorce– How this advice can unintentionally keep Christian women emotionally stuck– The difference between real faith and passive waiting– Why faith doesn’t eliminate grief, confusion, or emotional pain– What the Bible actually shows about faith and taking action– How to move forward after divorce with both faith and practical steps– What real, grounded faith looks like during divorce recovery
✨ Ready to Move Forward with Confidence and Faith?
If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who truly understand this journey.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find:
🎉 My transformational 90-Day Comeback Program
🎉 Weekly live coaching and Q&A sessions🎉 Faith-based guidance for healing after divorce🎉 A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives
You don’t have to navigate this season alone.
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14 | Faith Doesn’t Cancel Feelings: Why Suppressing Pain After Divorce Isn’t Spiritual

Episode #14: Faith Doesn’t Cancel Feelings — Why Suppressing Pain After Divorce Isn’t Spiritual
As Christian women, we’re often taught that if we just “have enough faith,” we shouldn’t feel sad, angry, or overwhelmed.
So after divorce, when those emotions show up…
We try to pray them away.Ignore them.Push them down.
And call it faith.
But what if suppressing your feelings isn’t spiritual at all?
In this honest and eye-opening episode of The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast, I talk about the real reason so many Christian women stay stuck emotionally after divorce—and why pretending you’re “fine” is actually slowing down your healing.
Because the truth is…
Faith doesn’t cancel your feelings.
And healing doesn’t happen when you ignore what you feel—it happens when you finally face it.
If you’ve ever felt like your emotions mean you’re doing something wrong spiritually, this episode will help you understand something powerful.
You’re not failing in your faith.You’re learning how to process your pain in a healthy, honest way.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Why suppressing emotions after divorce keeps you stuck longer than necessary– The difference between real healing and “spiritual avoidance”– What the Bible actually shows us about emotions and faith– WhatvJesus did when it came to expressing his deep emotions– How to stop trying to “pray away” your feelings– What it looks like to bring honest, unfiltered emotions to God– How emotional healing and spiritual growth actually work together
✨ Ready to Heal Without Pretending You’re Fine?
If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is walking through this process with support.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, my annual group coaching membership, you’ll find✨ My 90 day transformational "Crush Your Divine Comeback, Girl" Program
 ✨ Weekly live coaching and Q&A sessions with Lori Ann, Certified Christian Life Coach✨ Faith-based guidance & strategies for healing after divorce✨ A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives
You don’t have to navigate this alone.
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13 | Proverbs 31 Woman Doesn't Mean 'Put Up With Abuse'

Episode #13: The Truth About the Proverbs 31 Woman: Why Christian Women Stay in Unhealthy Relationships
For years, many Christian women have been taught that being a “Proverbs 31 woman” means staying quiet, keeping the peace, and enduring—no matter what.
But what if that’s not what the Bible actually teaches?
In this bold and eye-opening episode of The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast, I unpack one of the most misunderstood concepts in Christian womanhood—and how it may be keeping you stuck in unhealthy patterns after divorce.
Because the truth is…
Being a godly woman does not mean tolerating behavior that breaks you.
And it definitely doesn’t mean abandoning yourself in the process.
If you’ve ever felt like you had to choose between your faith and your well-being, this episode will help you see something clearly.
You don’t have to disappear to be a “good Christian woman.”
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– What the Proverbs 31 woman actually represents (and what she doesn’t)– Why “just pray and stay” is often misunderstood—and not always biblical– The difference between true strength and silent self-abandonment– What it really means to “guard your heart” as a Christian woman– What Jesus would do in an unhealthy relationship– Why your value is not based on how much you tolerate– How to begin reclaiming your voice, your confidence, and your identity after divorce
✨Ready to Rebuild Your Life with Confidence and Faith?
If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is surrounding yourself with women who are walking this journey too.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, you’ll find:
✨ My transformational 90-Day Comeback Program✨ Weekly live coaching and Q&A sessions with Lori Ann, Certified Christian Life Coach✨ Faith-based guidance for healing after divorce✨ A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
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12 | Divorce, Guilt, and God: Letting Go of the Shame That Keeps You Stuck

Episode #12: Divorce, Guilt, and God: Letting Go of the Shame That Keeps You Stuck
If you’ve ever laid in bed replaying your past like it’s your brain’s full-time job… this episode is for you.
Because let’s be real—after divorce, it’s not just the heartbreak you carry…
 It’s the guilt. The second-guessing. The quiet thoughts that whisper: “I should’ve known better.” “This was my fault.”
In this episode, we’re calling that out for what it really is—shame that’s keeping you stuck.
And more importantly?We’re replacing it with truth.
Because God never asked you to carry something He already paid for.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
–The difference between conviction vs. shame (and why so many women confuse the two) –Why replaying your past is not helping you heal (even though it feels like it is) –The hidden reason you’re still holding onto guilt—and how to finally release it –What the Bible actually says about forgiveness, grace, and letting go of your past –How to break free from the mental loop of overthinking and step into emotional and spiritual freedom
Ready to Let Go of the Shame and Move Forward?
If you’re tired of:✨ Replaying the past✨ Carrying guilt that God already released✨ Overthinking every decision✨ Feeling stuck in your healing
This is exactly the work we do inside The Midlife Comeback Club 💛
This isn’t just inspiration…
It’s transformation.
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11 | You Didn’t Lose Your Faith—You Lost the Life You Expected

Episode #11: You Didn’t Lose Your Faith—You Lost the Life You Expected
After divorce, it can feel like your faith is… off.
You still believe in God.You still pray.You still want to trust Him.
But something feels different.
And that can be confusing—especially as a Christian woman.
In this episode of The Midlife Comeback Club, I break down what’s actually happening when your faith feels shaken after divorce.
Because the truth is:
You didn’t lose your faith.You lost the life you thought you were going to have.
And those are not the same thing.
If you’ve ever thought, “Why does my faith feel so different now?”This episode will help you understand what’s really going on—and how to rebuild from here.
In This Episode You’ll Learn:
– Why it feels like you’ve “lost your faith” after divorce (even when you haven’t)– How unmet expectations can shake your identity and your relationship with God– Why questioning God doesn’t mean your faith is failing– The shift from surface-level faith → real, personal faith– How to begin rebuilding your faith in a way that actually feels honest and grounded
Ready to Rebuild Your Faith and Your Life?
If this episode spoke to your heart, it’s time to stop trying to figure this out on your own.
Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, I help you:✨ rebuild your confidence✨ trust yourself again✨ and move forward with clarity—without overthinking everything
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